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But I have no time whatsoever for tedious generalisations about men and women and, in particular, what men want from women, which invariably boils down to men wanting women to dress like Jennifer Aniston and act like a housewife from Mad Men.Not only is this assumption pretty Cheap Mermaid Prom Dresses annoying to women, but it's very demeaning to men. Despite what lazy standup comedians and rubbish bro-humour movies might suggest, some men – quite a few men, even – do want more than a blow-up doll in good jeans. Some of them, I've heard tell, like smart women – women with opinions, even! Fancy that! Because some men – maybe, just maybe, even most men – are human beings as opposed to galumphing neanderthals.So there's that. Next we come to the issue of dressing for someone else. Sure, it's nice to be admired and maybe some women do dress purely for public approbation, or, more specifically, male approbation. But in my extensive experience of being a woman who wears clothes and hanging out with a lot of women who wear clothes, I feel I can say with some certainty that most women do not wear clothes for men – they wear clothes for Prom Gowns Online Sale themselves. In fact, contrary to the perception you may have been given by the media and pop culture, I would even go so far as to say most things women do regarding their personal appearance are for themselves. Because, funnily enough, not everything a woman does is to "get a man" or "wow a man" or whatever ovary-curdling phrase might be used.One of the truly great pleasures of women's fashion – and a major reason why I will always defend fashion against charges of anti-feminism – is how it allows women to enjoy themselves and try out different looks and just have some gosh-darned fun. After all, if you're going to spend your own hard-earned money on a garment, at least you should enjoy the garment and feel comfortable and confident in it. You should not spend money on something you don't like but think someone else will. That, surely, is just obvious common sense.This tendency www.cheappromdresses2016.us.com to change one's appearance for oneself is not always healthy. The extreme example here is developing an eating disorder – and excuse me for going mildly off topic, but this is something of a bugbear of mine. Whenever anyone writes about eating disorders, there are always several comments beneath the article – invariably left by men (and that's not a generalisation, that's a fact) – suggesting that these women are being silly because: "Don't women know that men like them with a bit of meat on?" Oh, you like us with "meat on"? Why didn't you tell us before? |
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